Are you ready for love ???

I found this awesome list of things that resilient couples do differently

I have to say I absolutely agree with all of the above…

So The next question is do you do all of these in your relationships??

If not today is a great day to start. The truth is all relationships have their ups and downs. Sometimes the most perfect couple in the room is just a lie and can be the one having the most toxic relationship.

People start off in relationships by chance or with hope to achieve happiness and love but in reality these small words could be so complex at times…

Somedays you may find yourself angry or unwanting to bend for your partner but all relationships take compromise. Or maybe you are the one that needs your partner to bend and they still refuse to do so. So what do we do in these scenerios???

Here is another list of some ways to tell how bad you relationship is at this moment…

In the hard moments of your relationship you must make decisions sometimes for the good and sometimes even the bad…

It is those times that you must balance your pros and cons!!! Dont be afraid to pick apart your relationship and find the problems underneath fake smiles and the show you put on for the world.

The only way to fix a problem is to first identify what the problem is…. The next step is building a plan of action to realistically fix the problem or decide if the problem is worth fixing or just best to move on from..💕

Be strong through these times and remember all you can do is your best. If that is not enough for someone, then in the end it is their problem not yours.

We can not please everyone and sometimes if we try to hard we loose ourselves along the way, trust me I’ve been there. It can be a lonely and sad place. Follow your heart but always use your brain to be fully aware of your scenario…

This is what a healthy relationship should consist of

If you are not doing or having done for you any of the above or are missing even one piece of the puzzle today is the day to look over your options and decide if the relationship you are in is worth the struggle or lack of love, support, respectand whatever else if could be missing…

For so long men where raised to support and and be strong. While women were raised to be uphold some imaginary idea that we do not use a bathroom or that we wake up as beautiful as we are mid day…

In reality our relationships are not a cinderella story…

Answer this question???

I ask you to answer that because it is 2018 about to be 2019 and if you can not answer that question before you focus on someone else you need to focus on yourself…

  1. Learn your wants, needs, desires and dreams…
  2. Discover your strengths and weakenesses…
  3. Decide what type of life you want to live before you have to compromise away an answer you are unsure of…
  4. Take time to focus on building your life and securing a place for you to prosper before you allow someone else to blow all your hopes and dreams in a different direction…

    So now I ask you?

You see I tell you things because no one ever tells you to live a little before you settle down… No one ever tells you peace and happiness starts from having an understanding of yourself and your own wants and needs.

So before you commit yourself to someone an their ideas and their hopes and dreams make sure you know yours because one day down the road all of those questions will come up and if you do not want to throw your life, hopes and dreams away then you need to know where the boundaries stand…

Love is complex and sometimes even so blind we walk away from the things we hold dear or forget who and what we are and what we ever wanted in the first place…

Although, if you focus on you and build your confidence. Brainstorm your dreams and aspirations. All while living the type of life you want to lead when you find the person you are suppose to spend the reat of your life with they will most likely be running along side you some where along the way to your daily wants and needs….

Use these few quotes to help guide you to peace and happiness for that is what you deserve always…💕

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